With or Without You (1999)

Director: Michael Winterbottom
Cast: Alun Armstrong, Christopher Eccleston, Dervla Kirwan, Doon Mackichan, Fionnula Flanagan, Julie Graham, Lloyd Hutchinson, Yvan Attal

Synopsis:

Rosie and Vincent know each other for ten years, and are married for five. She doesn’t like her job, he isn’t too pleased working with her dad. They’re trying to have a baby. One morning Benoit, a Frenchman and former pen pal of Rosie, whom she never met, comes to visit. Did Rosie love him? Does she love him now?